Hey fam!
We've just had an amazing chat with our content partner and friend Mike Freed.
Mike is not just a very successful lawyer, but also master of making people laugh.
He's a genius at touching hearts and making a real difference with his words.
And guess what? He's spilled all his secrets on how we can do it too, in our own content!
We talked about something super cool. Making content, the stuff we read or watch online, is a lot like telling jokes or funny stories.
Mike told me that whether we're trying to make someone laugh or make them think, it's all about practicing a lot and paying attention to what works and what doesn't.
He mentioned a special ingredient: being real and sharing a bit of our own stories.
It sounds a bit scary, right?
But when we share a little bit of ourselves, it's like magic. People feel more connected to us and remember what we say way better.
So, if you love creating things for others to enjoy, such as writing, making videos, or anything else, you'll find this chat with Mike super helpful.
It's packed with #goldenboulders of wisdom that'll help you elevate your content.
Today's show will make your brain go, "Wow, I can totally do this!"
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Timestamped Overview:
00:00 Relaxing in Fort Myers, working hard too.
05:44 Lawyer enjoys being impulsive and extroverted.
06:14 Similarities, differences, need for audience, persistence.
12:15 Podcast and live performance feedback loops immediacy.
13:51 Maintain self-awareness and balance when performing.
18:13 First impressions matter in content creation.
21:07 Other side may not understand your background fully.
24:31 Reflection on content creation for improvement.
26:17 Comedy relies on spontaneous and scripted moments.
30:05 Comedy timing crucial, let jokes breathe.
32:58 Communication is 7% words, 38% tonality, 55% body language.
36:42 Importance of tone in parenting and communication.
40:40 Adding stories can increase emotional impact in content.
43:25 Authenticity and likability are key in comedy.
46:08 Diversify content with more creator series.
50:21 Comedian exercises daily, writes and tries new jokes.
52:44 10 shows monthly; clean comedy at Murray Hill.
56:26 Kid shares long, detailed Star Wars joke.
58:40 Express gratitude and discuss philanthropy and podcast.
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[00:00:00] How long are the open mind sex?
[00:00:02] Uh, it's not safe.
[00:00:04] Open mind sex!
[00:00:05] Whoa, this changed the subject.
[00:00:07] Wow, what type of fight is this?
[00:00:09] Not that bad.
[00:00:10] Curious, do you tell jokes in the courtroom?
[00:00:12] You know, more than I should.
[00:00:14] Words matter and now tonality matters as well, right?
[00:00:17] And if we're communicators, we're putting our message out to the world,
[00:00:20] how we say it matters as much because it will carry emotion.
[00:00:23] I'm sure I'll never say anything in my entire life that's worth remembering,
[00:00:27] but I am making people feel a certain way, whether it's my kids,
[00:00:31] whether it's, you know, wife, girlfriend, you know, friends, you guys.
[00:00:35] That's gonna be more important because that's how you think about me
[00:00:38] and maybe even how you think about yourself.
[00:00:40] What are some of the ways that you look into previously done things to improve?
[00:00:45] Baseball players, for example, they fail more often than they succeed, right?
[00:00:49] If you do about 300 your whole career, you're gonna go in the hall of fame.
[00:00:53] Whereas in lawyer, if I told my clients,
[00:00:55] I fail 70% of the time, I am a...
[00:00:58] We've got some fresh new talent.
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[00:01:25] Today we've got a special episode.
[00:01:27] We have one of our studio podcasts with clients as a guest.
[00:01:31] Woo-hoo!
[00:01:32] He is a philanthropist that has raised over 2 million for his charity,
[00:01:36] Free to Run, which, all his running,
[00:01:39] puts all of my brothers' tough mothers to shame.
[00:01:43] Not only that, but he's a father to five,
[00:01:46] all while working for one of the biggest law firms in Florida
[00:01:49] and crushing the stage at comedy shows
[00:01:52] with his Free to Love comedy series.
[00:01:55] That's right.
[00:01:56] Welcome the host of your first rodeo and good friend,
[00:02:00] Mike Freed!
[00:02:03] Woo-hoo!
[00:02:04] That's the best intro I've ever got.
[00:02:06] Thank you guys.
[00:02:07] We are trying to sell ourselves so we can introduce you
[00:02:09] into your comedy shows.
[00:02:10] You know, we'll again everybody hype top and then...
[00:02:12] I'll take it.
[00:02:13] I'm usually the first up, so I kind of self-introduce.
[00:02:16] This was amazing.
[00:02:17] There we go.
[00:02:18] We'll be there, I don't know, 0.5 up.
[00:02:20] I don't know how you would call it.
[00:02:21] It'd be an improvement.
[00:02:24] Yeah, we need to take some improved classes
[00:02:26] before we actually go do that.
[00:02:28] Yeah, absolutely.
[00:02:29] My wife says I'm not funny, but I'm convinced I am funny.
[00:02:32] Some days.
[00:02:33] If we make you laugh today,
[00:02:35] he said he will go on stage on Open Mike.
[00:02:38] He can make me laugh.
[00:02:39] I've already been laughing.
[00:02:41] I'll bring you guys out for an Open Mike.
[00:02:43] You should come out sometime.
[00:02:44] There's no way.
[00:02:45] Yeah, I need to work in a little minute.
[00:02:47] I need to work on some script.
[00:02:49] Do people just jump in there and improvise?
[00:02:51] Some that doesn't usually turn out very well.
[00:02:54] Some people think they have something funny to say,
[00:02:57] and you might be funny at the family dinner or around the table,
[00:03:00] but being funny on a stage,
[00:03:02] usually in a very compressed period of time,
[00:03:04] like three minutes or five minutes,
[00:03:06] they'll start a story and they'll be just barely scratching
[00:03:09] the surface when their time's up.
[00:03:11] Sometimes people lightning in a bottle,
[00:03:13] they're funny just out of the gate,
[00:03:15] but very infrequently.
[00:03:17] How long are the Open Mind sex?
[00:03:20] Open Mind sex.
[00:03:22] There we go.
[00:03:23] Change the subject.
[00:03:24] Wow, what the mopakas is this?
[00:03:26] That's just gonna happen.
[00:03:28] You might be funny with that.
[00:03:29] There we go, see?
[00:03:30] Okay, I guess I have an Open Mike.
[00:03:32] No, I'm kidding.
[00:03:33] The Open Mike set.
[00:03:34] How long is it?
[00:03:36] It depends where you are.
[00:03:37] I mean locally, say in Northeast Florida,
[00:03:39] you know, five minutes would probably be a typical Open Mind set.
[00:03:44] I just love it.
[00:03:45] Just love it.
[00:03:46] And if they're open,
[00:03:47] if you're guest, we all should be open minded about sex.
[00:03:50] That's your point, right?
[00:03:52] True that.
[00:03:53] Those lawyers.
[00:03:54] I love when Spanish gets in the way,
[00:03:56] you know, when the language barrier gets in the way
[00:03:58] in the most awkward moments.
[00:03:59] This is beautiful.
[00:04:00] I mean, I think I mentioned this last time.
[00:04:02] Have you guys speak Spanish?
[00:04:03] No.
[00:04:04] Sometimes, I don't know.
[00:04:05] I mean, Fonsey speaks Mexican.
[00:04:07] He lived with like six Mexicans in Texas.
[00:04:09] We tried, yeah, yeah, it was awesome.
[00:04:11] It was a great experience, let me tell you.
[00:04:12] But last time you were here,
[00:04:14] I remember telling you about this show
[00:04:16] I've been obsessed with.
[00:04:17] It's called A Kill Tony, right?
[00:04:19] Yeah, in Austin.
[00:04:20] Yeah.
[00:04:21] And they do like, they pull out of bucket and it's one minute,
[00:04:24] right?
[00:04:25] And it seems so frightening and so scary at the same time.
[00:04:29] So to plan that minute and I keep an eye on Tony,
[00:04:33] right?
[00:04:34] He's coaching these people, right?
[00:04:35] On how to do it.
[00:04:36] You got to write it.
[00:04:37] You got to put in the reps.
[00:04:38] You got to, you know, you're going to suck his part.
[00:04:40] And I see a lot of parallels, right?
[00:04:42] With also with publishing, right?
[00:04:43] Like clearly we still suck.
[00:04:45] I just made a massive mistake here, which is fine.
[00:04:47] It's okay.
[00:04:48] We laughed about it and we moved forward.
[00:04:49] But I remember like the first few episodes, right?
[00:04:51] And I remember a lot of the people on our clients here in the studio
[00:04:54] and all over when they start publishing,
[00:04:57] that's a very real thing, right?
[00:04:59] So obviously you come from, I guess,
[00:05:02] is it a corporate world, right?
[00:05:04] Very much corporate world in the law side of things.
[00:05:06] Exactly.
[00:05:07] And now you have an incredible podcast that we kind of inherited
[00:05:10] with the studio, which I really love.
[00:05:12] And then you also do comedy.
[00:05:13] How was that transition for you?
[00:05:14] Like was it natural?
[00:05:16] Did it come natural?
[00:05:18] Yeah, I don't know.
[00:05:19] I've got a weird mentality where I don't mind jumping into things
[00:05:24] with both feet and being a little impulsive.
[00:05:29] Obviously the law generally speaking doesn't reward
[00:05:33] that type of behavior.
[00:05:34] You have to be very careful and methodical and detailed.
[00:05:38] So that part was different.
[00:05:42] But there's an extroverted part of lawyering on the litigators,
[00:05:45] so being out in front, trying cases.
[00:05:48] But there are similarities and there's differences.
[00:05:53] You really do have to be willing to suck for a while.
[00:05:55] But the tension, and I think it's probably the same with podcasts
[00:05:59] and with a lot of the outward facing things that you guys
[00:06:02] and your listeners are part of,
[00:06:04] you need to get butts in seats.
[00:06:06] You need to get listeners.
[00:06:07] You need your friends and family coming to see you
[00:06:10] so that you can have a value proposition.
[00:06:13] But you may not be good at first.
[00:06:15] So that's the tension because in comedy,
[00:06:18] you will get gigs if you can get people to come see you.
[00:06:22] But then there's other comedians,
[00:06:24] especially the more established ones,
[00:06:26] who say you shouldn't invite anyone to see you
[00:06:28] for the first two years.
[00:06:29] Wow.
[00:06:30] But of course, especially in a smaller town,
[00:06:32] you're not going to be able to keep doing comedy
[00:06:35] unless you can get people to come see you.
[00:06:37] So you got to try to get good quicker
[00:06:40] and then also make your material fresh.
[00:06:43] Because unlike musicians who play other people's songs
[00:06:47] or play their own songs but play them at every set,
[00:06:50] nobody wants to come hear a comedian tell the same jokes
[00:06:53] week after week.
[00:06:54] So you got to freshen things up.
[00:06:56] Yeah.
[00:06:57] By talking about freshening things up
[00:06:59] and having a lot of reps,
[00:07:01] I'm relating this right now on a poker kick.
[00:07:04] I'm enjoying playing poker, learning poker.
[00:07:06] And one of the things...
[00:07:07] Did you win any money last week?
[00:07:09] I haven't played it.
[00:07:10] I didn't play it last week.
[00:07:11] But last time, I did take all your money.
[00:07:13] And I took my money back because I lent it to you
[00:07:15] and then I beat you and got it back.
[00:07:17] But that being said,
[00:07:19] one of the things that they're talking in that world
[00:07:21] is that now players get better quicker
[00:07:24] because they're able to play multiple hands online.
[00:07:28] Right?
[00:07:29] And they're just playing and they're exposed
[00:07:31] to so much information that technically
[00:07:33] the good players improve faster
[00:07:35] rather than go and play in person
[00:07:38] and only doing 30 hands an hour
[00:07:40] in comparison to literally hundreds of hands an hour.
[00:07:43] So now talking about that kind of exposure,
[00:07:46] I feel like it could potentially be the same
[00:07:48] with comedy and social media.
[00:07:50] People now can try skits faster
[00:07:52] and have a quick feedback loop
[00:07:55] and then test material
[00:07:57] and then go in person where you got to get button seeds
[00:08:00] and perform those good bits.
[00:08:02] Have you seen anything like that?
[00:08:04] Have you tried anything like that?
[00:08:06] Yeah, I mean you have to be willing.
[00:08:08] You're kind of talking about the fail fast concept, right?
[00:08:11] Which is kind of in vogue in a lot of areas.
[00:08:14] And yeah, comedy, you guys were athletes.
[00:08:17] You guys were soccer players, your listeners probably know.
[00:08:19] Looking at me won't surprise you listeners
[00:08:21] that I was not an athlete.
[00:08:23] I was in debate club and doing things that were not.
[00:08:26] Deadiers rewards.
[00:08:27] Yeah, I guess.
[00:08:28] You're a mind athlete.
[00:08:29] That's a super power, man.
[00:08:30] Mind sex is what I was going to do.
[00:08:32] I was only having sex in my mind.
[00:08:35] I'm suspicious that he's going to make it to your set at some point.
[00:08:38] Maybe.
[00:08:39] There we go.
[00:08:40] You know this guy, Luis, he's got a brother named Luis.
[00:08:43] But the point is baseball players, for example,
[00:08:48] they fail more often than they succeed, right?
[00:08:50] If you've got 300, your whole career,
[00:08:52] you're going to go in the hall of fame.
[00:08:54] Whereas in lawyer, if I told my clients,
[00:08:56] by the way, I fail 70% of the time, hire me.
[00:09:00] That's not a good average.
[00:09:02] Comedy is one of those things that I feel like it's athletic
[00:09:06] in the sense or courageous in the sense that you're going to fail.
[00:09:09] You're going to fail with the same joke.
[00:09:11] One night might succeed.
[00:09:12] It's going to fail the next.
[00:09:13] Some nights you're going to get up.
[00:09:14] You're going to tell 10 jokes and they're all going to fail.
[00:09:16] And you've got to tell the first one, fail.
[00:09:19] Tell the second one is if you're going to hit a home run with it.
[00:09:22] So you get those reps in.
[00:09:24] You tweak a word here or there.
[00:09:26] Or you abandon a joke that's not working.
[00:09:28] And you do have the opportunity to keep going.
[00:09:30] The problem is if you're actually putting content out on the internet
[00:09:34] and assuming it doesn't ever go away,
[00:09:37] your crappy stuff is going to stay out there forever.
[00:09:40] And if your crappy stuff is stuff that could get you in trouble
[00:09:44] or get you canceled or that doesn't age very well,
[00:09:48] there's that problem as well.
[00:09:50] I think it's part of the journey though,
[00:09:52] having the bad stuff.
[00:09:54] Not necessarily the stuff that's going to get you in trouble,
[00:09:56] but your bad material out for people to see as well
[00:10:00] and then experience your journey.
[00:10:01] We talk about it with podcasting,
[00:10:03] which is somebody might find you on your episode 500.
[00:10:08] And then they're going to go back and say,
[00:10:10] let me see how these guys were on their first episode.
[00:10:12] And that can actually serve as motivation for some people
[00:10:15] because they might go in and listen to that first episode
[00:10:17] and say, wow, they were terrible.
[00:10:19] Now they're still kind of bad,
[00:10:21] but they have improved a little bit.
[00:10:23] They're less terrible.
[00:10:25] But now they're willing to give you a chance.
[00:10:27] But I feel like at the same time that helps with relatability.
[00:10:31] People are going to feel a little connected to you.
[00:10:33] I like that idea.
[00:10:34] I think that's right.
[00:10:35] My first ten episodes of the My First Rodeo podcast
[00:10:37] was doing in my living room or my dining room
[00:10:40] without the benefit of your studio.
[00:10:42] So the sound quality is not as good.
[00:10:44] It's a little tinier.
[00:10:45] It's not as well produced.
[00:10:46] But I like to think that folks that are listening
[00:10:49] to the more recent episodes and are inclined to go back,
[00:10:51] they'll be like, oh, it's kind of quiet.
[00:10:53] It was the same model.
[00:10:54] Had some good guests out of the gate.
[00:10:56] But it was a little tinier.
[00:10:58] But it's sweet.
[00:10:59] It's like whatever.
[00:11:00] The Beatles' first albums.
[00:11:02] That was exactly going to be my comparison.
[00:11:05] Me and the Beatles.
[00:11:06] That's what people did.
[00:11:07] I'm the Beatles of the podcast.
[00:11:09] They're not.
[00:11:11] I love it.
[00:11:13] The capture presentation that we did a couple of weeks ago
[00:11:16] in that event, we talked a lot about feedback loops.
[00:11:19] And when you're not presented or you don't see the feedback
[00:11:26] on whatever content we're producing
[00:11:28] or if you put something out there to the world,
[00:11:31] it's hard to improve at the end of the day.
[00:11:34] Because you're probably from the inside out.
[00:11:36] So it's very important that we go see what's
[00:11:39] the good content doing?
[00:11:40] What's the background?
[00:11:41] Sometimes we put an episode out that we think
[00:11:43] we did the worst.
[00:11:45] This might not be a thing.
[00:11:46] And we get surprised that people react in a very positive way.
[00:11:49] So we're like, why did they react that way?
[00:11:51] And then you start digging and you start learning things.
[00:11:53] So for content specifically, a podcast feedback loop
[00:11:57] can take a couple of days.
[00:11:58] For a short, it can take maybe minutes or hours
[00:12:01] depending on how the platform presents it.
[00:12:03] Now when you're in the courtroom
[00:12:06] or even in a comedy show,
[00:12:08] you get feedback loops immediately in a sense.
[00:12:11] And to me, I always imagine being in that spot in a way,
[00:12:18] especially on the comedy side.
[00:12:20] It's like, wow, you say this thing that you expect people
[00:12:22] to go and laugh and have a reaction
[00:12:24] and then people don't.
[00:12:25] And there's 200 people in front of you
[00:12:27] or 20 people or 10 people, whatever it is.
[00:12:30] So mentally, how do you deal with that?
[00:12:33] Do you block yourself from that
[00:12:35] or how do you receive that feedback?
[00:12:37] Do you adapt immediately?
[00:12:38] Like what are some things?
[00:12:39] Because obviously that's a very extreme case
[00:12:41] because you're on a stage in person.
[00:12:44] But maybe there's a framework that we can extract from there
[00:12:47] for people that are publishing,
[00:12:49] maybe they're real, their content, their original ideas
[00:12:51] that they put out to the world,
[00:12:53] whether it's a business stuff or passion.
[00:12:55] How do you deal with that in the comedy side
[00:12:59] and then also in the courtroom?
[00:13:01] Are they different? Is it the same thing?
[00:13:03] There's certainly differences,
[00:13:05] but at its core it's being aware of your audience
[00:13:08] and then also being self-aware but not self-obsessed.
[00:13:13] So you have to know how you're being perceived
[00:13:16] and what you're trying to achieve.
[00:13:19] You have to have a sense of how your audiences are reacting
[00:13:22] in the courtroom.
[00:13:23] It could be a judge, it could be a jury,
[00:13:25] it could be your client, it could be the media.
[00:13:28] In a comedy club obviously you pretty much have the audience
[00:13:31] but you also have to see yourself
[00:13:34] how you're being perceived by them.
[00:13:37] But you could take that too far, right?
[00:13:39] If you're constantly fixing your hair
[00:13:41] or tucking in your shirt or fixing your tie
[00:13:44] or it leads you to stutter
[00:13:46] or have some sort of a nervous tick
[00:13:49] then it goes too far.
[00:13:51] You just have to be conscious with comedy.
[00:13:53] Of course you want to record it a lot
[00:13:55] not necessarily to preserve it
[00:13:57] but just to listen to it right afterwards
[00:13:59] and a lot of times you'll get back and you realize,
[00:14:01] oh I said the wrong word there.
[00:14:03] No wonder they didn't laugh.
[00:14:05] I was supposed to say not before that
[00:14:07] and I didn't say not.
[00:14:09] They heard the exact opposite
[00:14:11] whereas you're thinking you're killing it.
[00:14:13] Just being aware of comedy is kind of fun
[00:14:15] because if I'm opening up for a national headline
[00:14:18] or say at the comedy zone
[00:14:20] I'll do five shows in three days.
[00:14:23] So maybe a show Thursday, two shows Friday,
[00:14:26] two shows Saturday
[00:14:28] that's a real treat because you get to do your set
[00:14:31] and then watch the headliner come up
[00:14:33] and then you get another off-fresh audience
[00:14:35] and you come back and you do the same jokes generally.
[00:14:38] But you say, well what didn't work last time
[00:14:40] when you really get a chance to try it out again?
[00:14:43] In a courtroom obviously
[00:14:45] you don't generally get a second chance
[00:14:48] but you do have to be aware of all those audiences.
[00:14:53] You have to be respectful of the process.
[00:14:55] There's a lot of rules to work with in a courtroom
[00:14:58] and you like to think that
[00:15:01] it's not a popularity contest there.
[00:15:03] It's more about the facts and the law
[00:15:06] but the truth is a great lawyer
[00:15:09] or a relatable lawyer can really win a jury
[00:15:12] or a fact finder over, especially in gray areas
[00:15:15] where the truth maybe is unclear
[00:15:17] and a really bad lawyer
[00:15:19] or someone that has no people skills
[00:15:21] can lose even a good case.
[00:15:24] So it's knowing your audience
[00:15:26] and then knowing yourself
[00:15:28] and adding those two together in the right circumstances.
[00:15:30] Every lawyer is not right for every case
[00:15:32] and every comedian is not right for every audience
[00:15:34] or every comedy club.
[00:15:36] I'm mostly a clean comic
[00:15:38] so there's going to be certain audiences
[00:15:40] that will like that and then other audiences
[00:15:42] where I probably shouldn't be there.
[00:15:44] It's just not the right audience for me.
[00:15:46] By the way, I was looking at your reels right now.
[00:15:48] I like your bid on the door dash.
[00:15:50] That was funny.
[00:15:52] I was like, oh, door dash.
[00:15:54] People's food marinating in their cars.
[00:15:56] You don't really know what there's inside.
[00:15:58] It's like, oh yeah, that is true.
[00:16:00] Never door dashing again.
[00:16:02] I was inspired by my mom who said she was going to use door dash
[00:16:04] to avoid the germs in a restaurant.
[00:16:06] I was like, mom, have you ever seen the inside of a door dash driver's car?
[00:16:08] That's good for you.
[00:16:10] Yeah, definitely.
[00:16:12] Definitely got me thinking, you know, which is pretty good.
[00:16:14] I'm curious, do you tell jokes in the courtroom?
[00:16:16] You know, more than I should.
[00:16:18] I mean, I'm sarcastic
[00:16:20] by nature, which is a great thing
[00:16:22] to have in circumstances where it's valued.
[00:16:24] And it's a really obnoxious thing to have
[00:16:26] as my ex-wife told me
[00:16:28] in circumstances where it's not valued.
[00:16:30] She didn't get sarcasm, didn't like sarcasm.
[00:16:32] She's immigrant and I don't know,
[00:16:34] just didn't translate well.
[00:16:36] And she didn't like me, so that probably didn't help either.
[00:16:38] But among the things she didn't like about me,
[00:16:40] she did not like my sarcasm.
[00:16:42] You know, courtroom at work sometimes.
[00:16:44] In a jury selection, this huge group of people
[00:16:46] who are not really interested in the court,
[00:16:48] you know, like in a jury selection,
[00:16:50] you know, this huge group of people come in.
[00:16:52] It's tense, it's uncomfortable, they don't want to be there.
[00:16:54] So I like to think if you could just do something
[00:16:56] a little human.
[00:16:58] I mean, I had a jury to pick not too, too long ago
[00:17:00] and, you know, they say
[00:17:02] you're supposed to ask a question of each potential juror
[00:17:04] so you don't make any of them feel left out.
[00:17:06] And I had gotten to the last one,
[00:17:08] I only had a little bit of time left
[00:17:10] and whatever her number was, juror number 21.
[00:17:12] She saw on her questionnaire, she was a hairdresser
[00:17:14] and I said, juror number 21,
[00:17:16] I'm supposed to ask everybody a question.
[00:17:18] What do you think of my hair?
[00:17:20] She laughed and everybody laughed
[00:17:22] and I'm bawled for your listeners
[00:17:24] that aren't looking at me, so it was, you know, funny.
[00:17:26] And sometimes they can think you're obnoxious
[00:17:28] and you don't know,
[00:17:30] I've just met these people for the first time
[00:17:32] and they are not expecting sarcasm.
[00:17:34] So if they value that,
[00:17:36] they have won them over in a minute
[00:17:38] and if they hate sarcasm
[00:17:40] and don't like being, you know,
[00:17:42] they can feel like you're being a victim
[00:17:44] of being, you know, they can feel like you're being made fun of, right?
[00:17:46] Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
[00:17:48] But there's a lesson in there, you know,
[00:17:50] especially when we're talking in the context
[00:17:52] of content which is
[00:17:54] you're gonna be in people's feeds
[00:17:56] that are getting to know you for the very first time
[00:17:58] and your content might not be for them
[00:18:00] and then I see on they say
[00:18:02] who's this obnoxious guy, right?
[00:18:04] Or what does this guy know about podcasting?
[00:18:06] I don't want to listen to this guy
[00:18:08] and they just slide right and they go to the next one
[00:18:10] and I think a lot of people get
[00:18:12] stuck in their heads thinking
[00:18:14] what if people have all these negative thoughts
[00:18:16] when I publish my content, right?
[00:18:18] And that stops them in their track from taking action.
[00:18:20] It's the same thing that you're just mentioning.
[00:18:22] What is this? I mean, with comedy
[00:18:24] you probably get so much judgment
[00:18:26] and you know, some people laugh, some people not laugh,
[00:18:28] whatever it is part of, you know,
[00:18:30] the deal rather and the same is with content
[00:18:32] having that mindset.
[00:18:34] I remember maybe it was
[00:18:36] like a month ago or so
[00:18:38] we really got a very heated
[00:18:40] like review on the show, right?
[00:18:42] And you know,
[00:18:44] for people to review podcasts
[00:18:46] it's not as easy as pressing one button, right?
[00:18:48] You have to go into the platform, you have to click this
[00:18:50] and there's like several step process, right?
[00:18:52] They had to really hate you.
[00:18:54] I know, Miss Karen.
[00:18:56] I can't remember her name now
[00:18:58] but it was like a very detailed...
[00:19:00] I'm gonna say it was mostly towards him.
[00:19:02] Right. They said Luis
[00:19:04] so I know what's going on.
[00:19:06] I didn't say posy.
[00:19:08] He's definitely justified whatever the comment was.
[00:19:10] Yeah, and I
[00:19:12] own an episode of like the lessons
[00:19:14] from that because it's super
[00:19:16] interesting like that deters a lot of people.
[00:19:18] It got me heated not because of the comments
[00:19:20] because we don't care, like we've done this for a long time
[00:19:22] but something like that
[00:19:24] my... wow, Fonzie.
[00:19:26] Can you make more noise with that cookie?
[00:19:28] I just put the paper and write in the microphone.
[00:19:30] You said we were gonna fight over the cookie
[00:19:32] and now while you're
[00:19:34] there with the cookie I can't do anything about it.
[00:19:36] Wow. You're not sharing?
[00:19:38] I thought I heard it was like...
[00:19:40] We can eat the crumbs head of his beard.
[00:19:42] That's on you, my dear.
[00:19:44] All of you, my man.
[00:19:46] No, go in there.
[00:19:48] This lady didn't like you.
[00:19:50] Yeah, so for a lot of people
[00:19:52] that's a big fear.
[00:19:54] I'm gonna put my message out there
[00:19:56] and then there's gonna be these random people
[00:19:58] I don't know who they are.
[00:20:00] We call them keyboard warriors
[00:20:02] because they're so brave behind it
[00:20:04] and at the same time the comments that she was saying
[00:20:06] was, hey, like the host
[00:20:08] where they were also sharing too much of their story
[00:20:10] they were sharing too much about them
[00:20:12] and I think it was an amazing
[00:20:14] investor that came that day to the interview
[00:20:16] and we're going back and forth, right?
[00:20:18] Right.
[00:20:20] And then to the point that we're just sharing
[00:20:22] part of her journey is that we're also sharing
[00:20:24] our story here for a lot of people to learn
[00:20:26] from our mistakes and the things that we've done
[00:20:28] so it's not an interview, it's really a conversation
[00:20:30] that we're having. So that's why I was at peace
[00:20:32] and as I saw that, I just started laughing
[00:20:34] and I was like, well this is actually a great lesson
[00:20:36] and we should talk about this stuff.
[00:20:38] So I want to encourage every creator out there
[00:20:40] that is also your story, your message
[00:20:42] and the people on the other side might not
[00:20:44] have the full background
[00:20:46] on what you're doing, right?
[00:20:48] They might be just seeing the tip of the iceberg
[00:20:50] and we're talking about clips earlier
[00:20:52] about these comedians
[00:20:54] that might be like a bit or something
[00:20:56] that they do on social
[00:20:58] and that helps them move forward
[00:21:00] in their careers, but they're also
[00:21:02] working on their craft for so many years
[00:21:04] at the same time
[00:21:06] and then it's like, okay how do we maximize that
[00:21:08] little iceberg moment that we can have
[00:21:10] on social or content or whatever
[00:21:12] to them move forward, but
[00:21:14] so...
[00:21:16] And it's a fair observation, I was just thinking about
[00:21:18] your listener who made that comment
[00:21:20] because you went different things out of different podcasts
[00:21:22] like I listened to WTF with Mark Barron
[00:21:24] one of the first podcasts really out there
[00:21:26] and when I started listening to
[00:21:28] he's very self-indulgent
[00:21:30] but it's his followers
[00:21:32] I'm one of them
[00:21:34] and so if he's interviewing
[00:21:36] whatever, President Obama or Ben Kingsley
[00:21:38] I still want to hear
[00:21:40] his story in the midst of their story
[00:21:42] but then I listened to SmartLess
[00:21:44] with three other celebrities
[00:21:46] interviewing one celebrity
[00:21:48] I feel like just my
[00:21:50] particular taste they tend to overpower
[00:21:52] the guests because they've all got their stories
[00:21:54] there's three of them which is probably
[00:21:56] a lot of hosts
[00:21:58] but it's not wrong or right
[00:22:00] each of those podcasts are very successful
[00:22:02] and I've went different things out of each of them
[00:22:04] Yeah, definitely
[00:22:06] That's probably every
[00:22:08] Cuckoo? Yeah, destroy the thing
[00:22:10] It was so good if we...
[00:22:12] Shout out to my girlfriend
[00:22:14] I love you
[00:22:16] Clip this part on Senator
[00:22:18] You were talking about
[00:22:20] I thought of Forgana with the Cuckoo stuff
[00:22:22] The negative lady
[00:22:24] The negative lady
[00:22:26] I had a comment on the tip of my tongue
[00:22:28] You swallowed it with the cookie
[00:22:30] No, no, no, for the cookie
[00:22:32] We agree or disagree
[00:22:34] Oh, I remember now you were talking about
[00:22:36] the different podcasts, different hosts
[00:22:38] different type of shows
[00:22:40] personality
[00:22:42] more with a certain type of personality
[00:22:44] than other ones
[00:22:46] Something that we've noticed in this show
[00:22:48] is some comedians come out
[00:22:50] flashing and loud
[00:22:52] and they have this sort of personality
[00:22:54] and then some other ones that just come in
[00:22:56] and they're like low energy
[00:22:58] you know, like
[00:23:00] and they're hilarious as well
[00:23:02] Sure, and you can kind of
[00:23:04] even hear different parts of the crowd
[00:23:06] laughing, it's like, oh this person
[00:23:08] appeals more to this group of people
[00:23:10] and this other person appeals more to this other group
[00:23:12] of people and I find that interesting because
[00:23:14] as we move on
[00:23:16] this content world one of the things that
[00:23:18] I feel we're more convinced every single time
[00:23:20] is the value of personality
[00:23:22] like the person behind the microphone
[00:23:24] the person that is sharing the stories
[00:23:28] their personality is going to attract
[00:23:30] a certain amount of people
[00:23:32] and a certain type of people
[00:23:34] and sadly there's also
[00:23:36] some people that have no personality at all
[00:23:38] they go in there and they're like, oh my gosh
[00:23:40] we call them pancin sal
[00:23:42] bread without salt
[00:23:44] Well cin sal
[00:23:46] No, pancin sal
[00:23:48] Well, I don't know
[00:23:50] Maybe I don't even know my own country sayings
[00:23:52] I didn't even know they were salt and bread
[00:23:54] I don't know
[00:23:56] Why are you eating pancin?
[00:23:58] I don't have been eating too much
[00:24:00] All about food
[00:24:02] But I did want to
[00:24:04] change a little bit the topic
[00:24:06] not still kind of like our own comedy
[00:24:08] but previously you
[00:24:10] talked about reflecting on
[00:24:12] your own set
[00:24:14] and I think that's one of the
[00:24:16] mistakes people that produce
[00:24:18] content don't really do
[00:24:20] which is going back and listening to their own stuff
[00:24:22] and then saying, wow
[00:24:24] I have these behaviors during the
[00:24:26] podcast that I do
[00:24:28] or X, Y and C that I could improve
[00:24:30] maybe I'm not starting with the right hook
[00:24:32] what about next time I start with the right hook
[00:24:34] I think that's an incredible skill
[00:24:36] What are some things
[00:24:38] maybe as a comedian or even
[00:24:40] you're a content creator, you're a podcaster
[00:24:42] what are some of the ways that you
[00:24:44] look into previously
[00:24:46] done things to improve
[00:24:48] One real obvious one
[00:24:50] and I've noticed this more than anything on podcasts
[00:24:52] hopefully I'm not doing it here
[00:24:54] is the use of ums and us
[00:24:56] you never hear yourself
[00:24:58] doing them when you're
[00:25:00] speaking first time
[00:25:02] and you go back and listen
[00:25:04] we all tolerate a certain amount of that from each other
[00:25:06] it can even be a little charming
[00:25:08] depending on who the person is
[00:25:10] if you're rubbing fingers
[00:25:12] and styles
[00:25:14] swirling your mustache
[00:25:16] but that's a good one that you really don't notice
[00:25:18] you're doing it excessively
[00:25:20] until you listen to it
[00:25:22] it's hard to control
[00:25:24] as I just did
[00:25:26] so that's one
[00:25:28] talking over guests is
[00:25:30] certainly something that you can miss
[00:25:32] and again that can be fun
[00:25:34] and conversational
[00:25:36] or it can be just annoying
[00:25:38] if you're literally not getting
[00:25:40] the right word
[00:25:42] you can get comments out
[00:25:44] sometimes you listen
[00:25:46] and either I'll notice it or someone else will notice
[00:25:48] but if you would have shut up there
[00:25:50] he or she was just about to say something really cool
[00:25:52] and you offered your own example
[00:25:54] and lost that opportunity
[00:25:56] so those are the kind of nuances
[00:25:58] that in real time I tend to miss
[00:26:00] comedy
[00:26:02] it's a matter of did I say the right word
[00:26:04] sometimes the most beautiful things happen
[00:26:06] because again comedy
[00:26:08] is something that you can't do
[00:26:10] and so you'll tell the joke in a particular way
[00:26:12] but for whatever reason
[00:26:14] something magical happens that night
[00:26:16] where you throw in something different
[00:26:18] or someone from the audience says something
[00:26:20] and you play off of it
[00:26:22] and it just gets a lot funnier
[00:26:24] and then you try to capture that lightning
[00:26:26] in a bottle and use it again
[00:26:28] I think that's where the most
[00:26:30] positive developments can come out of comedy
[00:26:32] definitely the magic sex sections
[00:26:34] that's probably going to be something moving forward
[00:26:36] you can find those in our OnlyFans
[00:26:40] it's the other Louise
[00:26:42] I had a great idea because we have a story
[00:26:44] with the OMS
[00:26:46] when I first came to college
[00:26:48] at this point I'm saturated with that story
[00:26:50] but you know share the story
[00:26:52] there might be some new people that don't know
[00:26:54] but I'll do it fast
[00:26:56] first class is speaking
[00:26:58] in UNF
[00:27:00] and we had about 30 people in the room
[00:27:02] and they're like hey prepare a 3 minute presentation
[00:27:04] so I'm like oh this is easy
[00:27:06] I'm going to talk about Venezuela
[00:27:08] so I just put a slide with a bunch of pictures
[00:27:10] and I was going to talk about each of the pictures
[00:27:12] not write anything
[00:27:14] I was just going off the cuff from the picture
[00:27:16] that was there
[00:27:18] so I was one of the last ones
[00:27:20] and the professor had an um counter
[00:27:22] sitting next to her
[00:27:24] and anyways
[00:27:26] people were like 10 OMS
[00:27:28] 15 OMS, 5 OMS
[00:27:30] and everybody's like oh you know
[00:27:32] it was like 20
[00:27:34] so I go on and I do my thing
[00:27:36] and in my head I'm like wow this is great
[00:27:38] it's flowing amazing
[00:27:40] this is now what
[00:27:42] this is like 11 years ago
[00:27:44] um
[00:27:46] and uh finish the presentation
[00:27:48] and I noticed the professor
[00:27:50] engaged on it
[00:27:52] so as I'm talking
[00:27:54] she's engaged, the students are engaged
[00:27:56] so I'm like this is going great
[00:27:58] anyways she asked the person next to her
[00:28:00] how many OMS
[00:28:02] he just looks at the person
[00:28:04] and we're both like
[00:28:06] what?
[00:28:08] that's not true
[00:28:10] she's like I got him here, like the sheet full of little dots
[00:28:12] right
[00:28:14] and there was a lesson
[00:28:16] at the end of the day for me the lesson was
[00:28:18] that's not going to stop me from saying the thing
[00:28:20] because I was being engaging in different ways
[00:28:22] but at the same time great feedback
[00:28:24] to be able to do it
[00:28:26] so I wrote here, new contest
[00:28:28] for those listening, new contest
[00:28:30] count our OMS
[00:28:32] I already found it, I started
[00:28:34] like 2 seconds ago
[00:28:36] you got 2 OMS so far
[00:28:38] and if it's for the full episode
[00:28:40] I didn't count those
[00:28:42] I didn't count the ones where he mentioned
[00:28:44] I have to don't say
[00:28:46] I was like alright I'll excuse that one
[00:28:48] it's quite
[00:28:50] but then send us
[00:28:52] your number on social media
[00:28:54] or an email whatever right at the bottom
[00:28:56] of the notes and if it's as close as possible
[00:28:58] we'll have a price for you
[00:29:00] you will get the voice of Luis saying um
[00:29:02] on your answering machine
[00:29:04] that's right, maybe we'll do something a little more fun
[00:29:06] this is Luis
[00:29:08] he came to the phone
[00:29:10] but one of the things like obviously I've been
[00:29:12] more aware of that
[00:29:14] and it helps you improve
[00:29:16] to me I also speak very fast
[00:29:18] a lot of people say me
[00:29:20] they say to me
[00:29:22] and
[00:29:24] I've been trying to
[00:29:26] make it a little bit slower
[00:29:28] doesn't work most of the time but it's okay
[00:29:30] what's that balance for you like how do you find the balance
[00:29:32] do you lean into
[00:29:34] fully you
[00:29:36] or do you listen and grow from that
[00:29:38] and adapt right?
[00:29:40] yeah I think that's right in comedy
[00:29:42] it's important to let jokes breathe as well
[00:29:44] and if you're nervous or if the first couple
[00:29:46] jokes bum a lot of times
[00:29:48] I'll start rushing
[00:29:50] but I notice if you just wait a little bit
[00:29:52] for the bigger room I mean if it's a
[00:29:54] you know a theater
[00:29:56] you need to wait for the laughs
[00:29:58] to come from the back of the room to the front
[00:30:00] so you really do have to find something to do
[00:30:02] whether it's fidgeting
[00:30:04] or looking like you're fidgeting
[00:30:06] or drinking water or something
[00:30:08] to give everybody equal chance to hear the joke
[00:30:10] react to the joke
[00:30:12] but if you just rush in a lot of times
[00:30:14] you'll not give the audience a chance
[00:30:16] you know sometimes I try to tell intellectual jokes
[00:30:18] sometimes they take
[00:30:20] it takes a lot of courage to put
[00:30:22] silence there
[00:30:24] because if nothing comes it's really really
[00:30:26] painful
[00:30:28] but sometimes you pause
[00:30:30] just it feels like
[00:30:32] five minutes but it's probably a half a second
[00:30:34] and that's just enough time for the audience
[00:30:36] like somebody laughs
[00:30:38] and then somebody else laughs about that laughing
[00:30:40] and all of a sudden the entire audience is laughing
[00:30:42] whereas if you just rush to the next joke
[00:30:44] you know afterwards somebody might say
[00:30:46] that was a really funny joke he told
[00:30:48] and you laugh
[00:30:50] yeah I don't know
[00:30:52] that they know that but I know that that's one of the things
[00:30:54] I need to work more on is pausing
[00:30:56] I started telling jokes
[00:30:58] or at least I was getting busy with it
[00:31:00] just when the pandemic hit
[00:31:02] so for about a year and a half comedy clubs were closed
[00:31:04] nobody was going out
[00:31:06] and there were zoom comedy
[00:31:08] shows which were horribly
[00:31:10] painful and anybody
[00:31:12] that had been doing it
[00:31:14] for a while just said no I'm not doing
[00:31:16] zoom comedy
[00:31:18] I wasn't smart enough to say no so I did it
[00:31:20] and I think I grew a lot as a comedian then
[00:31:22] because basically you were getting no reaction
[00:31:24] most people had their microphones off
[00:31:26] sometimes it was a full room of people on zoom
[00:31:28] you kind of looked to see if they were laughing
[00:31:30] but for the most part
[00:31:32] you just sort of got your timing down
[00:31:34] as if they were people laughing
[00:31:36] and I think when I came out of that
[00:31:38] I came out a little stronger
[00:31:40] certainly stronger than if I had just done no comedy
[00:31:42] for a year and a half
[00:31:44] very very interesting
[00:31:46] we actually had a guest previously
[00:31:48] on this topic of the past
[00:31:50] we had a guest previously that he mentioned
[00:31:52] the importance of embracing those
[00:31:54] silences
[00:31:56] and that you could actually identify
[00:31:58] moments on the guest
[00:32:00] where
[00:32:02] you could potentially keep digging
[00:32:04] or they would give you micro signals
[00:32:06] that would allow you to
[00:32:08] identify this is a good
[00:32:10] spot that we can dive into
[00:32:12] where most people just keep talking
[00:32:14] and then they don't give them a chance
[00:32:16] to kind of like fully
[00:32:18] let the information sink in
[00:32:20] and then be able to continue
[00:32:22] down that thread which is absolutely
[00:32:24] important and the other thing
[00:32:26] real quick before handing you the mic
[00:32:28] was that I've been listening
[00:32:30] to Tony Robbins lately
[00:32:32] I'm trying to do the mindsets
[00:32:34] so he was saying communication is 7%
[00:32:36] what you say
[00:32:38] 38% tonality and 55%
[00:32:40] body language
[00:32:42] I would argue that in comedy
[00:32:44] is more than 7% what you say
[00:32:46] definitely very important
[00:32:48] overall the tonality
[00:32:50] the body language we talked about that
[00:32:52] and I think part of it is
[00:32:54] embracing those silences
[00:32:56] be able, be comfortable
[00:32:58] your body language, be present
[00:33:00] that when you know you have to take a pause
[00:33:02] let's say you're talking about something sad
[00:33:04] or you're making a joke about something sad
[00:33:06] and you need a little bit of attention to build up
[00:33:08] it's good to take that pause
[00:33:10] but I feel like most people are
[00:33:12] maybe not as comfortable
[00:33:14] or just thinking way too ahead
[00:33:16] or thinking what are other people going to think
[00:33:18] if I let them wait
[00:33:20] for my next sentence
[00:33:22] that they just rush and they start talking way too fast
[00:33:24] no, it's very true
[00:33:26] I think preparation is such an important thing
[00:33:28] but you can over prepare
[00:33:30] and obviously if you've written out every word
[00:33:32] and you're just reading it
[00:33:34] we've all seen those commencement speeches
[00:33:36] in lawyering
[00:33:38] say I'm cross examining someone
[00:33:40] in a deposition
[00:33:42] you could definitely use pauses to get more
[00:33:44] if I ask you a question
[00:33:46] in a deposition and say it's being videotaped
[00:33:48] or not
[00:33:50] but after I ask it, you give an answer
[00:33:52] yes, no, and then I lean in
[00:33:54] or just keep making eye contact with you
[00:33:56] average person is going to think
[00:33:58] they're supposed to say something else
[00:34:00] if you're a bad ass that can't be stared down
[00:34:02] maybe not
[00:34:04] and you answer something
[00:34:06] and I just go like that
[00:34:08] sometimes you're going to give more
[00:34:10] and that's a useful tool
[00:34:12] I'm going to start doing that in online interviews
[00:34:14] as a question then
[00:34:16] just be like
[00:34:18] stare them down
[00:34:20] Fonzie, why are you looking at me that way?
[00:34:22] what's wrong with you?
[00:34:24] you do a little winky winky winky
[00:34:26] you do an eyebrow raise
[00:34:28] Fonzie, control yourself
[00:34:30] why is Fonzie flirting with all the gas
[00:34:32] I know, we start getting in love with that
[00:34:34] Mike told me to do this, Mike just told me to lean in
[00:34:36] I can't believe you fell for that
[00:34:38] our audience starts switching
[00:34:40] he just sent me up for the rest of my podcasting career
[00:34:42] our audience starts switching genders
[00:34:44] we're like what is happening
[00:34:46] anyways whatever
[00:34:48] I'll call you um and win
[00:34:50] alright, I'm going to make a quick part
[00:34:52] this is here, I made a note here
[00:34:54] that said I'm going to start a counter for your alms
[00:34:56] and a counter for your bad jokes
[00:34:58] that's number one
[00:35:00] we're 35 minutes in
[00:35:02] going back to the silence
[00:35:04] I remember seeing an interview with Elon Musk
[00:35:06] and he was being asked a question
[00:35:08] and he will just take his time
[00:35:10] breathe
[00:35:12] think and then answer
[00:35:14] right
[00:35:16] and I think that super valuable skill for any person
[00:35:18] that's in a conversation
[00:35:20] in a podcast
[00:35:22] and it was super impactful
[00:35:24] because I recognized that I was rushing
[00:35:26] a lot into answering different things
[00:35:28] we might not have the right answer
[00:35:30] or we might have to think a little bit on the context
[00:35:32] of the elements
[00:35:34] to actually
[00:35:36] give a good answer
[00:35:38] and that was so impactful to me
[00:35:40] it was a very small detail
[00:35:42] you know the power of the silence after you say something
[00:35:44] but also before
[00:35:46] you say something
[00:35:48] so that's the highlight
[00:35:50] I highly recommend watch Elon's interviews
[00:35:52] because he does it a lot
[00:35:54] I'm just going to say this real quick
[00:35:56] I've told him
[00:35:58] hey what about we
[00:36:00] look into the arms and the eyes
[00:36:02] and all these things
[00:36:04] but it had to be Elon Musk
[00:36:06] the one that comes through
[00:36:08] and takes all credit
[00:36:10] I know you were talking about the pause
[00:36:12] and the thinking
[00:36:14] I'm just putting on packaging
[00:36:16] all of that into the arms and arms
[00:36:18] just two arms by the way
[00:36:20] and then the example with tonality as well
[00:36:22] is so important
[00:36:24] I think this is the first time I hear from you
[00:36:26] on that side
[00:36:28] but it happens a lot with now my kids
[00:36:30] right you have five kids
[00:36:32] so lots of lessons to be learned there
[00:36:34] for us
[00:36:36] but with Luca
[00:36:38] my oldest sometimes
[00:36:40] I call him with a certain tone
[00:36:42] and he almost runs away
[00:36:44] in a sense or maybe he did something that he was not supposed to do
[00:36:46] and I do that
[00:36:48] and then immediately I catch myself
[00:36:50] and I change the tone, same word
[00:36:52] I'm like look buddy I'm not mad at you
[00:36:54] let's talk about this whatever right
[00:36:56] and it's so interesting
[00:36:58] and then with my wife
[00:37:00] my wife is one of those people
[00:37:02] I love dearly but she has no filter
[00:37:04] on what she says
[00:37:06] like her already
[00:37:08] and it's not the things that she says also
[00:37:10] she has no filter on the tone I started to recognize
[00:37:12] and I bring it up to her
[00:37:14] and be like you said it this way
[00:37:16] and she's hurting my feelings
[00:37:18] it happens often
[00:37:20] it's incredible
[00:37:22] how I've been practicing awareness
[00:37:24] on that side of things
[00:37:26] because words matter and now tonality matters as well
[00:37:28] and if we're communicators
[00:37:30] we're putting our message out to the world
[00:37:32] how we say it matters as much
[00:37:34] because it will carry emotion
[00:37:36] two thoughts on that
[00:37:38] and neither of them are original thoughts
[00:37:40] but I think they're really important
[00:37:42] they've certainly been impactful to me
[00:37:44] one is we tend
[00:37:46] and this isn't just about broadcasting
[00:37:48] I tend to listen
[00:37:50] to respond
[00:37:52] instead of listening to understand
[00:37:54] and when you change that paradigm
[00:37:56] when you listen to understand
[00:37:58] obviously if you're interviewing me
[00:38:00] at some point I'm going to respond
[00:38:02] horrible interview if I didn't
[00:38:04] but the most important thing is that I understand what you're saying
[00:38:06] I understand why you're saying it
[00:38:08] and sure if there's a response
[00:38:10] that's required then
[00:38:12] ultimately I respond
[00:38:14] but the old
[00:38:16] the old adage that you've got two ears
[00:38:18] in one mouth because you're supposed to listen
[00:38:20] twice as much as you speak
[00:38:22] so I think that's an important one
[00:38:24] the other one that you made me think about with your son
[00:38:26] and it actually came up with my son
[00:38:28] he didn't say it this way
[00:38:30] but I remember years and years ago
[00:38:32] he's 26 now
[00:38:34] but when he was probably about 11 or 12
[00:38:36] I was telling him something
[00:38:38] we went to bed the next morning
[00:38:40] we woke up and I was like Anthony
[00:38:42] I was disappointed in how you handled that situation
[00:38:44] you weren't being nice to your sister
[00:38:46] and he said you know you're right
[00:38:48] but I just
[00:38:50] didn't feel like you were listening to me
[00:38:52] I know you were right but I didn't feel like I was listening to
[00:38:54] and that reminded me
[00:38:56] of the expression that people don't remember
[00:38:58] what you said
[00:39:00] they remember how what you said made them feel
[00:39:02] and that's how your son
[00:39:04] was responding, that's how my son responds
[00:39:06] and yeah I'm sure
[00:39:08] I'll never say anything in my entire life
[00:39:10] that's worth remembering
[00:39:12] but I am making people
[00:39:14] feel a certain way whether it's my kids
[00:39:16] whether it's you know life
[00:39:18] girlfriend, you know friends, you guys
[00:39:20] that's going to be more important
[00:39:22] because that's how you think about me
[00:39:24] and maybe even how you think about yourself
[00:39:26] so lots of lessons there
[00:39:28] absolutely, I love that phrase
[00:39:30] people don't remember what you say
[00:39:32] but how what you said made them feel
[00:39:34] there are so many times
[00:39:36] where I'm sharing the excitement
[00:39:38] of events that we've been to
[00:39:40] it's like whoa we went
[00:39:42] to click funnels and we watched Tony
[00:39:44] Robin's live, what an experience
[00:39:46] and the people I'm talking to ask me
[00:39:48] oh so how did he go, what did you learn
[00:39:50] actually I don't remember anything that he said
[00:39:52] but the emotions were so high
[00:39:54] I was crying on that thing
[00:39:56] it was absolutely amazing
[00:39:58] right and is that power
[00:40:00] of emotions, actually emotions
[00:40:02] are the ones that get ingrained in your memory
[00:40:04] which I think it talks on another
[00:40:06] aspect of content and probably
[00:40:08] comedy as well, right I mean comedy
[00:40:10] you're driving this, emotions
[00:40:12] I think it could be a roller coaster
[00:40:14] right but on the content
[00:40:16] side as well how are your stories
[00:40:18] driving emotions, if your content
[00:40:20] is just all straight
[00:40:22] factual it might have
[00:40:24] very you know a coefficient
[00:40:26] emotional coefficient very low
[00:40:28] but the more stories you add
[00:40:30] in there maybe you know
[00:40:32] your tonality, your body language
[00:40:34] that can increase
[00:40:36] that emotional aspect on your content
[00:40:38] which is gonna you know help the listener
[00:40:40] remember you
[00:40:42] a little bit better and I think it's again the same
[00:40:44] with content, fun story actually
[00:40:46] the way I discovered
[00:40:48] Kill Tony was
[00:40:50] I was watching a poker video some
[00:40:52] guy that he is
[00:40:54] super spiritual, he's super odd
[00:40:56] cause he gambles right for a living
[00:40:58] playing poker but he is super spiritual
[00:41:00] so he moved to Bali
[00:41:02] but he said the only TV
[00:41:04] show that I watched with my wife
[00:41:06] is Kill Tony and he said
[00:41:08] there's something spiritual
[00:41:10] about comedy, it's like
[00:41:12] you see people stepping in stage
[00:41:14] with all their problems
[00:41:16] and they you know share their stories
[00:41:18] as hard as they've been
[00:41:20] you know they obviously they're trying to
[00:41:22] get a laugh from the crowd
[00:41:24] but they're putting themselves
[00:41:26] fully out there for the world to see
[00:41:28] and now relating that back
[00:41:30] to emotion once I started seeing Kill Tony
[00:41:32] obviously the main purpose was
[00:41:34] I wanted a laugh, I wanted comedy
[00:41:36] but some of the
[00:41:38] comedy that comes out the story that these
[00:41:40] people share and
[00:41:42] one of the things that Tony asked him is
[00:41:44] is the story that you're sharing is true
[00:41:46] like it's this joke real
[00:41:48] yeah and a lot of them
[00:41:50] say yeah like this actually happened to me
[00:41:52] I'm mind blown I'm like wow
[00:41:54] the level
[00:41:56] you know how open
[00:41:58] are they, the level of vulnerability
[00:42:00] that they have to share this
[00:42:02] with the audience is absolutely
[00:42:04] amazing and usually those
[00:42:06] again I might not remember the joke exactly
[00:42:08] but those are the ones that I'm like wow
[00:42:10] those were some good
[00:42:12] comedians that stepped up in there
[00:42:14] the same with content right, the people that make you
[00:42:16] feel something with their content
[00:42:18] those were some good
[00:42:20] pieces of content. I think you have great stories
[00:42:22] for your set
[00:42:24] for my set
[00:42:26] one involves tea
[00:42:28] I don't know
[00:42:30] that's a start
[00:42:32] experience
[00:42:34] I'll think of that one
[00:42:36] why does he knows that one so
[00:42:38] he knows everything
[00:42:40] I might
[00:42:42] start with something more lighthearted
[00:42:44] for that, I don't even know if I'll do
[00:42:46] that you lost so
[00:42:48] you are walking on the open mic
[00:42:50] I think you should both come
[00:42:52] it's a challenge we might accept it
[00:42:54] I might need some tips
[00:42:56] on how do I ride a good joke
[00:42:58] let's go with that, how does somebody ride
[00:43:00] a good joke? Well you already touched on one
[00:43:02] it's got to be authentic
[00:43:04] there's some exceptions to that rule
[00:43:06] if it's just a word play or something like that
[00:43:08] but a joke about
[00:43:10] raising kids or having a girlfriend
[00:43:12] or being an immigrant or growing up in
[00:43:14] Venezuela that's going to be funny
[00:43:16] or at least it's going to be the premise
[00:43:18] for something funny, something authentic
[00:43:20] about you. For the most part
[00:43:22] you got to be likable
[00:43:24] there are exceptions to that rule as well
[00:43:26] there's the Andrew Dice clays of the world
[00:43:28] there's Chappelle
[00:43:30] they've got their own followers in a different way
[00:43:32] but even Chappelle I would say people like him
[00:43:34] the ones that like him
[00:43:36] and therefore they like his stories
[00:43:38] you got to have
[00:43:40] and again every rule I'm going to give you
[00:43:42] there's exceptions but you got to have
[00:43:44] something funny happening at least every 30 seconds
[00:43:46] so even if it's a 10 minute story
[00:43:48] say like a Chappelle story
[00:43:50] if you dissect his jokes
[00:43:52] there's a funny line
[00:43:54] or a funny little rabbit hole he takes you on
[00:43:56] about every 30 seconds
[00:43:58] because generally if people are coming out to laugh
[00:44:00] they want to be laughing, they don't want to sit
[00:44:02] and wait for some really amazing build up
[00:44:04] the problem is
[00:44:06] even if it's hysterical at the end of 10 minutes
[00:44:08] one laugh for 10 minutes is just
[00:44:10] not enough, it's not a good
[00:44:12] it's not a good ratio
[00:44:14] is there like a ratio laugh per minute type of drill
[00:44:16] 30 seconds is sort of a rule of thumb
[00:44:18] and again you could do different
[00:44:20] obviously you could do more
[00:44:22] but you don't want to do much less because
[00:44:24] then you're putting all your metaphor
[00:44:26] eggs in one basket
[00:44:28] and you're hoping that the punchline
[00:44:30] is going to be rewarding enough
[00:44:32] to justify all that time
[00:44:34] again sometimes that works for
[00:44:36] Chappelle's a good example of me
[00:44:38] he tells these really dry
[00:44:40] poignant stories I'm remembering
[00:44:42] when he tells about a buddy of his
[00:44:44] who he knew
[00:44:46] and then he saw me years later
[00:44:48] and I won't blow his punchline
[00:44:50] but it's a long ways to get there
[00:44:52] but because it was so serious
[00:44:54] and somber and the things this guy had navigated
[00:44:56] the reversal
[00:44:58] the direction that he takes at the very last second
[00:45:00] is a huge payoff
[00:45:02] yeah
[00:45:04] but that's a big investment to make
[00:45:06] if you're not Chappelle
[00:45:08] that actually
[00:45:10] I'm seeing a lot of parallels between
[00:45:12] comedy and content creation
[00:45:14] you said don't put all your
[00:45:16] eggs in one basket
[00:45:18] meaning in the terms of
[00:45:20] laugh per minute don't get only one laugh
[00:45:22] in a 10 minutes set
[00:45:24] because obviously your risk
[00:45:26] is failing is way bigger than
[00:45:28] if you do it every 30 seconds
[00:45:30] then you'll be having potential
[00:45:32] potentially 20 moments for
[00:45:34] laugh in a 10 minutes
[00:45:36] set if you do it every 30 seconds
[00:45:38] which gets me thinking
[00:45:40] don't put all your eggs in one basket
[00:45:42] when it comes to content
[00:45:44] don't put all your eggs in one basket
[00:45:46] because it's a huge payoff
[00:45:48] and if you're not going to
[00:45:50] justify your content
[00:45:52] we're actually talking a lot about this
[00:45:54] with our clients at the moment
[00:45:56] and it was one of our predictions for 2024
[00:45:58] which is
[00:46:00] there's going to be more series
[00:46:02] out on
[00:46:04] creators
[00:46:06] so for example somebody that creates short for content
[00:46:08] they're gonna do a series
[00:46:10] on how to run a podcast
[00:46:12] and all that type of stuff
[00:46:14] 30 seconds wait, 30 seconds I'm going for my next one
[00:46:16] but
[00:46:18] you know all those things
[00:46:20] is super important for creators
[00:46:22] and the fact that you said the same thing
[00:46:24] for comedians I found this super interesting
[00:46:26] so many parallels
[00:46:28] yeah speaking is speaking I agree with your diversity
[00:46:30] so for example if you had a podcast
[00:46:32] you definitely wouldn't want both podcasters
[00:46:34] to have the same name right that would be a bad
[00:46:36] yeah that would definitely be rough
[00:46:38] for sure that's why we
[00:46:40] didn't do well he changed it for me into
[00:46:42] Fonzie we used to say
[00:46:44] and I had to embrace it we used to say that the sexy voice
[00:46:46] was Fonzie I don't say that anymore
[00:46:48] yeah because you have Fonzie
[00:46:50] you've been practicing your voice trying to get sexy
[00:46:52] it's only the ums I think the ums make it sexy
[00:46:54] the ums it's your dad's fault
[00:46:56] your mom and dad's fault they're the ones that named you guys the same
[00:46:58] we say it was a marketing
[00:47:00] strategy from our mom honestly
[00:47:02] I was the only one to benefit from that
[00:47:04] strategy because I'm the younger one
[00:47:06] so probably shouldn't be talking about this with a
[00:47:08] lawyer here in the room but obviously
[00:47:10] you know when you're younger than 21 and you
[00:47:12] go out to party and stuff like that right
[00:47:14] not just to party to buy things on credit too
[00:47:16] my credit was all my stuff
[00:47:18] his his ID came in
[00:47:20] perfect for me right
[00:47:22] that's a good point and then hand me down it's like personalized
[00:47:24] clothing you could wear all the same way
[00:47:26] personalized clothing now when we
[00:47:28] go at events when we introduce ourselves
[00:47:30] I've never actually introduced myself as Fonzie
[00:47:32] right when we introduce ourselves we're always
[00:47:34] I'm Luis and then they turn to me and I'm like
[00:47:36] Luis and we're brothers
[00:47:38] and people look at us are you actually brothers
[00:47:40] are you actual brothers your fraternity
[00:47:42] brothers yeah we're like no we're real
[00:47:44] brothers with the same name
[00:47:46] so that causes an impression on people
[00:47:48] therefore an emotion
[00:47:50] therefore they remember us next time
[00:47:52] they see us so that's what we say or mom
[00:47:54] was just a marketing genius she doesn't
[00:47:56] know it but all credit to her mom
[00:47:58] yeah yeah people either remember both of
[00:48:00] you or neither of you there we go
[00:48:02] hopefully they do remember
[00:48:04] they normally remember the best bro which is this guy
[00:48:06] the bad jokes
[00:48:08] the um guy
[00:48:10] yeah absolutely
[00:48:12] the cookie guy
[00:48:14] okay so how long is the
[00:48:16] set that we have to prepare
[00:48:18] if you're gonna go out and just test it out
[00:48:20] try it out you know if you have five minutes ready
[00:48:22] that's pretty good five minutes
[00:48:24] I was thinking about 60 seconds
[00:48:26] it's because you're used to watching
[00:48:28] Kiltonny which is 60 seconds
[00:48:30] but I feel like that's like great start
[00:48:32] one minute okay so maybe this is how we
[00:48:34] break it down right prepare a minute at a time
[00:48:36] sure focusing on
[00:48:38] the premise which is the story something true that
[00:48:40] happened right or that is true to us
[00:48:42] and something
[00:48:44] fun it has to happen every 30 seconds
[00:48:46] so that will be
[00:48:48] like a good framework to kind of start writing
[00:48:50] that's a perfect framework and then
[00:48:52] I mean nobody's ever going to spend more
[00:48:54] time on stage so if you got a good
[00:48:56] 30 seconds or 60 seconds
[00:48:58] or a couple minutes
[00:49:00] but more often
[00:49:02] people blow the time
[00:49:04] and the host will put
[00:49:06] a light up at the back a flashlight that
[00:49:08] tells you it's time for you to wrap it up
[00:49:10] it's time to get out of here
[00:49:12] clearly they're kicking me out
[00:49:14] so I'm just gonna walk out
[00:49:16] I'm just about done
[00:49:18] and then they'll do another five minutes
[00:49:20] so yeah that's the worst thing when you're
[00:49:22] new at it it's really hard to know when to end
[00:49:24] sounds like that won't be your problem
[00:49:26] you're going with it
[00:49:28] we just continue
[00:49:30] Mike is there a routine
[00:49:32] you do for your art
[00:49:34] and your craft like how do you
[00:49:36] we're coming here to an end
[00:49:38] obviously our craft is our podcast
[00:49:40] so we do it three times a week
[00:49:42] we try to stay as consistent as possible
[00:49:44] we've done it plenty of times and it's definitely helped us
[00:49:46] on comedy what I've heard
[00:49:48] is that you gotta write
[00:49:50] write, write, write
[00:49:52] what's your
[00:49:54] how do you master your craft?
[00:49:56] yeah I exercise that every day
[00:49:58] and I do think I create more than the average
[00:50:00] comedian it doesn't mean I create
[00:50:02] good but I do write every day
[00:50:04] a lot of comedians so we'll get there
[00:50:06] tight 10, get a really good set of 10 minutes
[00:50:08] and then they'll add something
[00:50:10] periodically or occasionally
[00:50:12] I write new jokes and try them out every week
[00:50:14] because A I invite people to come see me
[00:50:16] time and again and so
[00:50:18] I feel like I owe them new jokes
[00:50:20] maybe not 100% new jokes but some new jokes
[00:50:22] what I do is I
[00:50:24] I do write new jokes but if you watch the late night shows
[00:50:26] I write as if I work for Stephen Colbert
[00:50:28] I will take the headlines
[00:50:30] and see something happening
[00:50:32] hopefully not something tragic but
[00:50:34] whatever the Air Alaska
[00:50:36] playing with the windows blown off
[00:50:38] obviously a big deal now
[00:50:40] we're ready to get that 50% off-flight
[00:50:42] exactly that's what I saw yesterday
[00:50:44] they were giving 30% off on their tickets
[00:50:46] and I said everybody gets a window seat
[00:50:48] not, you know it's not a great joke
[00:50:50] but it's an exercise
[00:50:52] and talk about every 30 seconds
[00:50:54] it's just a set up and a punchline
[00:50:56] a set up and a punchline so I'll do that
[00:50:58] for at least 20 minutes every morning
[00:51:00] some of those jokes never see the light of day
[00:51:02] and here's the thing
[00:51:04] if they're good jokes they don't last very long
[00:51:06] because if it's a joke about
[00:51:08] Christmas or New Year's or the
[00:51:10] Air Alaska plane nobody's going to want to hear about that
[00:51:12] in 3 months at least I hope not
[00:51:14] another parallel
[00:51:16] another parallel with content right here
[00:51:18] right trending topics
[00:51:20] and then evergreen content
[00:51:22] that's pretty much
[00:51:24] the two main buckets
[00:51:26] which we produce content with our clients
[00:51:28] which is trending right, is there anything
[00:51:30] right now that has attention to it
[00:51:32] they also you can leverage to
[00:51:34] divert attention
[00:51:36] towards yourself and towards your craft
[00:51:38] and then you use that but again
[00:51:40] that joke won't last too long but then you get the evergreen ones
[00:51:42] which I'm guessing in comedy might be
[00:51:44] the more your
[00:51:46] story something more organic
[00:51:48] historical that has lasted
[00:51:50] the test of time correct and I'm always trying
[00:51:52] you know you want to create those jokes about parenting
[00:51:54] jokes about more general
[00:51:56] airline travel
[00:51:58] and hope that they last a while and then you file
[00:52:00] them away because I do a lot of corporate gigs
[00:52:02] and sometimes you got to pull out the jokes
[00:52:04] that relate to this specific industry
[00:52:06] or what have you
[00:52:08] wow I love it this is awesome
[00:52:10] alright, challenge accepted
[00:52:12] I'm not putting a date on it yes but I'll start
[00:52:14] writing and see what comes up
[00:52:16] do you present every week, do you go on stage every week?
[00:52:18] I do about 10 shows a month
[00:52:20] on average which could be 5 in a week
[00:52:22] and none the next week and then maybe 2 or 3
[00:52:24] the following on average
[00:52:26] I do and would be remiss if I didn't tell your listeners
[00:52:28] who are at least in the northeast Florida area
[00:52:30] February 17th
[00:52:32] the clean comedy series at Murray Hill Theater
[00:52:34] Dry Bar Comedian Danny Johnson
[00:52:36] will be
[00:52:38] the headliner Joey Nick will be the feature
[00:52:40] and I'll be hosting so come on out for that
[00:52:42] get your tickets now it's a 300 person
[00:52:44] venue would love to fill it up
[00:52:46] and to have clean comedy every month
[00:52:48] at the Murray Hill Theater
[00:52:50] I think there's a market for it obviously
[00:52:52] Jacksonville is a very, you know
[00:52:54] it's got a lot of different people but it also has
[00:52:56] a lot of churches and I'm sometimes
[00:52:58] resistant to invite church friends
[00:53:00] to come here may even though I'm clean
[00:53:02] because the next guy might be talking about
[00:53:04] dick jokes or something I like to say
[00:53:06] dick jokes on your broadcast
[00:53:08] might be talking about those things
[00:53:10] that could be funny but it's not for everybody
[00:53:12] here's an opportunity for everybody who says
[00:53:14] they just want clean comedy
[00:53:16] to come to the Murray Hill Theater
[00:53:18] Clean Comedy Series February 17th
[00:53:20] Murray Hill Theater
[00:53:22] on their website, on their event page
[00:53:24] and you can go right there get your tickets
[00:53:26] and show up it's Valentine's weekend
[00:53:28] what a better place to bring
[00:53:30] your daughter, your wife, your girlfriend
[00:53:32] probably not a girlfriend and wife
[00:53:34] I would separate this
[00:53:36] Fancy ass with you buddy
[00:53:38] Madison Delt did not listen
[00:53:40] to this guy
[00:53:42] is one Louis that's married
[00:53:44] he's just trying to keep it that way
[00:53:46] you're just saying that to get cookies
[00:53:48] yeah he's doing cookie
[00:53:50] I'm looking here
[00:53:52] there's also an event bright page
[00:53:54] where people can go and they can
[00:53:56] get the tickets we're gonna link that on the description
[00:53:58] but you know I think it would be fun
[00:54:00] if we give out a few tickets
[00:54:02] we can give out five tickets first people to DM
[00:54:04] DM us you know
[00:54:06] we want in or cookies
[00:54:08] whatever just DM us that you want to go to the show
[00:54:10] and we'll give you guys
[00:54:12] some tickets yeah absolutely
[00:54:14] and we'll be there
[00:54:16] we'll be there for sure
[00:54:18] you guys are hearing that too right
[00:54:20] the back of the room is very far
[00:54:22] this is the laugh of like minute two
[00:54:24] first joke we told
[00:54:26] just came back
[00:54:28] she said oh man giving her the chance to get back
[00:54:30] it's all about the mindset
[00:54:32] there you go
[00:54:34] close in loops
[00:54:36] close in loops let me tell you
[00:54:38] another parallel
[00:54:40] do we open a loop
[00:54:42] that's actually I've seen that a lot in comedy
[00:54:44] I like geeking out on breaking down things
[00:54:46] ooh they said this thing five minutes ago
[00:54:48] and now they're closing it down
[00:54:50] I like structuring things like that
[00:54:52] I think it's pretty cool
[00:54:54] it's so funny because
[00:54:56] people always build callbacks into my sets
[00:54:58] because it's like a magic trick
[00:55:00] people are like oh he said that
[00:55:02] ten minutes ago and now he's talking about it again
[00:55:04] that's genius
[00:55:06] I'm gonna share the story
[00:55:08] of the first ever callback I experienced
[00:55:10] and it was
[00:55:12] amazing it was actually
[00:55:14] a kid from my grade back
[00:55:16] home back in Venezuela
[00:55:18] we used to do this from your grave
[00:55:20] my grade
[00:55:22] we used to do
[00:55:24] these trips
[00:55:26] we used to do these trips
[00:55:28] when we're in fourth fifth grade and sixth grade
[00:55:30] where we would go a week with
[00:55:32] or classmates to
[00:55:34] somewhere in the country
[00:55:36] it was a lot of fun
[00:55:38] and we went to this beautiful place called La Gran Savana
[00:55:40] honestly if you ever go to Venezuela
[00:55:42] it's the Grand Savannah
[00:55:44] I appreciate it
[00:55:46] I appreciate it
[00:55:48] it's incredible that's where the angels
[00:55:50] falls is right the biggest waterfall
[00:55:52] in the world and
[00:55:54] we had one night where everybody was sitting
[00:55:56] in a circle we were telling jokes
[00:55:58] and some were good some were
[00:56:00] pretty terrible and this kid gets up
[00:56:02] and he starts sharing
[00:56:04] the most
[00:56:06] I don't know detailed
[00:56:08] packed just like this story
[00:56:10] joke ever
[00:56:12] he's like two minutes into the story
[00:56:14] not even hitting a punchline or anything
[00:56:16] and it's about this guy
[00:56:18] and a ring and then all of a sudden
[00:56:20] he says and the guy gets upset and he just
[00:56:22] throws the ring into the ocean
[00:56:24] and he gets lost
[00:56:26] and everybody's like alright and then what
[00:56:28] and there was like no punchline
[00:56:30] it was terrible it wasn't a joke
[00:56:32] and the kid's like alright that's a joke
[00:56:34] and everybody's like what this is horrible
[00:56:36] get out of here dude
[00:56:38] you know the classmates
[00:56:40] we were like maybe 9, 10
[00:56:42] you suck
[00:56:44] and then I'm not getting 30 minutes later
[00:56:46] he comes back he's like alright
[00:56:48] alright I got another joke
[00:56:50] and everybody's like alright cool
[00:56:52] and he starts another story and people are like
[00:56:54] oh my gosh this is terrible
[00:56:56] I know one of this and the story is about
[00:56:58] a diver
[00:57:00] so he's talking how the diver
[00:57:02] all of a sudden
[00:57:04] founds the ring
[00:57:06] that everybody cracked up
[00:57:08] we're like what
[00:57:10] this is amazing
[00:57:12] you know the set of that he did
[00:57:14] he endured the booze
[00:57:16] of the whole crowd
[00:57:18] then waited 30 minutes
[00:57:20] the patience required to pull this off
[00:57:22] and then he stepped in there and did that
[00:57:24] this is one of the ones in our lifetime
[00:57:26] this is prime Netflix special out here
[00:57:28] wow you need to check that guy down
[00:57:30] that's something
[00:57:32] he's in Santiago
[00:57:34] well last time I talked to him
[00:57:36] he was in Canada I don't know where he is right now
[00:57:38] he left an impression on you
[00:57:40] he definitely left an impression
[00:57:42] and I was like wow
[00:57:44] so I love cold legs when I see a good one
[00:57:46] I'm like this guy
[00:57:48] that's awesome
[00:57:50] dude Maggie it's been an absolute pleasure having you
[00:57:52] and is there anything else that you want to share
[00:57:54] with our audience
[00:57:56] before we head out
[00:57:58] if you're not following these guys
[00:58:00] you need to and if you're not doing business with them
[00:58:02] I know they didn't ask me for that but they do help produce
[00:58:04] my show
[00:58:06] my first rodeo podcast love it if you listen to that
[00:58:08] it's free to laugh
[00:58:10] and keep doing the great things you guys are doing
[00:58:12] and I will be following your advice
[00:58:14] thank you
[00:58:16] I personally want to bring you back
[00:58:18] to talk a lot about the
[00:58:20] philanthropy side
[00:58:22] I think that is absolutely amazing what you're doing there
[00:58:24] and I also want to talk more about your podcast inside
[00:58:26] you know you talk at the beginning
[00:58:28] you mentioned that you are like to jump
[00:58:30] in you know into things
[00:58:32] you cannot do that in law
[00:58:34] but I feel like you have this side of you where you like to try out things
[00:58:36] and
[00:58:38] the philanthropy that you've put together
[00:58:40] free to run
[00:58:42] is a testament to that I think that's something that you probably created
[00:58:44] with those emotions I want to help people
[00:58:46] you started it and now you've raised
[00:58:48] over two million dollars
[00:58:50] yeah we're up to 2.5
[00:58:52] 2.5 million dollars for pediatric patients
[00:58:54] and senior citizens
[00:58:56] incredible
[00:58:58] so let's bring you back and talk more about that
[00:59:00] I'm going to leave an open loop
[00:59:02] that will close
[00:59:04] who knows but it's going to be more than half an hour
[00:59:06] that too we talk
[00:59:08] about selling businesses right
[00:59:10] so a lot of creators and people that have
[00:59:12] businesses maybe that might be a thing
[00:59:14] that they're not thinking right now but it's something
[00:59:16] that we should all be thinking
[00:59:18] on the lawyer side if you need a lawyer
[00:59:20] comedian I am one of them
[00:59:22] absolutely
[00:59:24] sweet Fonzie anything else
[00:59:26] no just thank you Mike it was awesome
[00:59:28] I appreciate you
[00:59:30] with that said guys thank you so much for tuning into
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